Sunday, October 11, 2020

Looking for Answers

Something is going on with Robert that I haven’t yet figured out. 

During the eleven years Richard and I have cared for Robert, there has been a dramatic decline in his functionality and mobility. It isn’t a straight downward decline but more like going down a staircase. Robert is stable for a while, then gets sick and loses some functionality and goes down to another step. He stays at that step for a while then gets sick again and we repeat the process. 

In the last eleven years we have gone down a lot of steps. 

Keeping Robert at baseline means doing my best to prevent him from getting sick. Seems easy enough but he gets sick not just because he picks up germs from other people but because he has a swallow disorder and easily aspirates which turns into pneumonia (which leads to another step down the staircase). 

Robert’s bouts of decreased mobility are usually explained by three things: the flu, aspiration pneumonia or as an indicator of seizures (the prodromal phase).  

He has very specific symptoms when he is getting sick. Increased pulse rate, decreased blood pressure, lots of confusion and weakness making it difficult to stand, walk or even transfer. If he has the flu or pneumonia he also runs a fever. 

When his seizures are coming he has a high pulse rate and he’s confused. 

Once we figure out what is causing these symptoms we can move on to treatment (rescue meds for seizures and usually the hospital for aspiration pneumonia or the flu since that usually turns into pneumonia). 

I love puzzles but this can get complicated. 

Robert started having worsening mobility and confusion about a month ago. He is acting just like he always does when he is getting sick. 

However, his vitals are fine. His blood pressure is lower than normal but I attributed that to his overall weakness. 

Since March, Robert has left the house only for physical therapy and for his flu shot so I knew it was highly unlikely he picked up COVID-19 or the flu. 

He has had more frequent aspirations and choking episodes but he would run a fever if that was turning into pneumonia. 

He had seizures one day during all this but not since. 

There is something wrong but it’s not his usual three issues. 

His GP moved back east and Robert was not set up with a new doctor yet so I reached out to his movement neurologist. She keeps an eye on his parkinsonism and knows how fragile he is. She speculated that he may have a urinary tract infection (UTI). This would explain the confusion and the mobility issues! She’s a genius! Robert would be good as new in no time! 

Catching the urine was a whole other issue but I finally got some. Just a little but enough to run the test. 

That came back normal. 

Ugh! I was really hoping for a UTI! (I know that probably sounds ludicrous to anyone other than a caregiver but I just wanted an explanation.)  The neurologist said it is possible “this represents progression in his underlying neurodegenerative process.”

No. That’s not what I want to hear. I want to find a problem that we can fix. 

I was so frustrated that we didn’t have any answers that I asked his neurologist to run bloodwork to see if he had an indication of an infection and also asked for another urinalysis. Maybe if I got more urine for the test it would be more accurate. She obliged. 

In the meantime, I set Robert up with a new GP. 

I took him in for the bloodwork. Later that day, I was able to get a full cup of urine! I was never so happy to see so much pee! I rushed to the lab and got there fifteen minutes before they closed. PLEASE let this give us the answers we need! 

The bloodwork came back mostly normal. The urinalysis took longer but came back Friday night. There were quite a few abnormal readings but the neurologist said it wasn’t a UTI and handed me over to the new GP to follow up. 

In the meantime, Richard and I have had some very difficult days trying to get him up and around (Robert is a big guy). Richard and I struggle to move Robert around. It takes both of us to get him out of bed and into a wheelchair then over to the bathroom. I’ve given up on dressing him in anything other than his pjs. (Luckily, we’re in the middle of a pandemic and wearing pjs all day every day actually isn’t all that unusual now.) 

Since we can’t risk hurting ourselves we decided to try new routines and found one that is working! We are changing Robert’s brief in the morning while he’s in bed. We give him breakfast and have him drink water and juice and watch television to wake up a little bit before trying to get out of bed. That is helping! He is definitely stronger and more mobile after eating and drinking. Plus, he has a newfound love of Star Trek and who doesn’t love breakfast in bed?! 

It was such a relief to find something that makes even a little bit of a difference. Just making this one change helps us so we are not hurting ourselves and it helps Robert because not being able to move is getting frustrating for him. 

We still have to find the underlying issue and my hope is that it is something that can be fixed. I worry about kidney damage from all of the medications he is on but hope it’s something simple like dehydration, which we can fix. 

The puzzle of Robert continues but so does our persistence in finding answers so we can slow the inevitable steps down that darn staircase.